Instagram Etiquette

Instagram Etiquette Today, we share with you our list of Instagram Etiquettes; the do's and don't's on Instagram. Beyond personal experiences, we speak from a magazine standpoint, as well as a witness to many funny activities on this social media platform.

1. Pitches: As an outlet, we receive numerous pitches a day whether by phone, email, or even snail mail. Sometimes, it's inundating. And what's worse is receiving endless comments from businesses who attempt to pitch their product or business to us. We understand how small businesses work, and how we all need a boost. But take a second to get on your desktop, search for our website, and contact us formally through our email. While informality is all the rave, we're old souls who love a good personal letter (that's actually and correctly addressed to the magazine!).

2. Repetitive Comments: We have witnessed the endless (and sometimes pointless) comments made by self-promoters. Sometimes they are bloggers, and other times they are online businesses. We love being interactive with our readers, and we know they love who we follow. Yet, the comments become ingenuine as time goes on... And we begin to acknowledge they're meant for simple self-promotion. And of course, there are those who tend to comment on every photo (not just our own photos, but on others' feeds too!). Try and make comments matter. If the photo does not pertain to you, you don't have to comment on it, especially if it's just one emoticon (let's put a pause on excessive emoticon plugging!). But the more you are honest about your comments, and the more you prove you actually read the users' captions, the more they'll care what you have to say too!

3. Read the Captions: Simply put, read the captions before you respond! For example, the user may say: "Eating at Bottega today!" And we've seen people comment below, "Where did you get those macarons?" As insignificant that may sound, your Instagram persona will be deeply more appreciated if people knew you took the time to read a few seconds worthy of captions.

4. Limiting Hashtags: There's no need to hashtag every verb and noun you use. We love to read about people's days. Treat your Instagram like a microblog! Tell us what's happening the photo! If it's a photo of your baby playing with his or her food, you don't have to write: #mybaby #baby #little #child #food #mess. Make something out of it, and make it worth your followers' time! Tip: Just use hashtags in a comment, so by the time you get a few third-party comments in, your hashtags won't be seen.

5. Selfies: There might need to be a limit on selfies. Take a peek at this video, and let us know how you feel after.

6. Please Follow Me, Please!: Somehow, users think this comment works. Most of the time, we believe they're just kids (whose parents should be monitoring their Internet usage!).

7. Food Photos: Remember the Martha Stewart issue that was going viral? It's a good reminder that everyone is watching... Of course, social media should serve as platforms of self-expression, but it's hard to attract your friends, families, or followers with bad photos of food - no matter how delicious it actually was! Think twice before your upload.

8. Excessive Liking: And never following. We love that you want to promote your account, but it's obvious where this is all leading to. We consider this spam.

9. Credit where Credit is Due: Reposting photos is easy as 1-2-3. And so is crediting the creator, but it doesn't happen so often.

10. Parents who Reveal Everything: We don't mean special events like your child's first haircut, we're referring to the parents who announce where their children go to school... Where they take ballet lessons... And where they eat and at what times. It's dangerous and within seconds, we know how to locate you when you turn on your location option. Example: Moving into a new home, and turning on your location with the title 'New Casa!' where it tells us exactly where your house is (cross streets and all!).

These are simply thoughts about how you should treat your social media presence, and much effect one photo, caption, or comment can have. In this day and age, people take social media very seriously... And while we don't like to, it's almost a necessity. Whether you're a small business, blogger, or just an Instagram-user, make your interactions matter. You never know who's watching, and you'll never know the beautiful relationships you can make that might just end up as lasting friendships. We, here at Zooey, have found so many of our staff members just through Instagram; just within a touch of a button. Isn't that incredible?

While these are just 10 lessons to note and acknowledge, we are sure you have a dozen more. What are we missing? Let us know in the comments!

Illustration // Kendra Dandy

How to Throw a Themed Exchange Party

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As a wardrobe stylist and blogger for Art in the Find Styling in San Diego, I am constantly looking for ways to connect ladies together as part of my business. I love what I do as a stylist. Part of that comes from putting together a great party and seeing the happiness on women’s faces when surrounded by stylish goodies in a fun environment. Lately, the exchange party trend has been spreading around. I mean, who doesn’t love a good party? And a great swap of clothes, accessories, or home goods? You don’t have to spend much and you get a bunch of great gently used, now newly loved, goodies for you or your home. Having just recently thrown my own La Bonne Vie French inspired Accessory Exchange at a boutique in San Diego, I wanted to share with you a few tips to inspire you to host a fun, successful exchange of your own!

Tip 1: Think Ahead

Decide what to exchange, what do you have extra of? Books? Accessories, tops, shoes? All of these can be used for a themed exchange! Give yourself at least a month to plan and time for gals to gather up goodies to exchange.

Pick a theme & invite a small number of participants - Once you’ve decided what you want to exchange, make it pop by picking a theme. Use Pinterest for inspiration and develop snacks, drinks, and decor around that theme. Make signs, invites, desserts, all centered around the theme for a cohesive event.

Art in the Find’s Inspiration: La Bonne Vie Pinterest Board

Tip 2: Be Personal

As you’re planning, think about ways you can make your exchange a bit more personal...Create cloth napkins out of fabric rather than using paper napkins. Or use a variety of glassware to create an eclectic mix, rather than plastic cups. It makes the exchange feel much more personal and your guests will appreciate it!

Tip 3: Plan, Adapt, and Ask for Help Along the Way Initiate to-do lists and ask for help (you can’t do it alone!), Have lists for decor, another for food to buy, make, and an additional one for set-up items. Check off items from your list and be ready to make changes and adjust your lists as the event draws near.

Ask a few people if they would be willing to assist you in the prep & set up, and take-down. This way, you’ll be able to enjoy the event that much more because you’ve delegated small tasks to helpers rather than trying to do it all on your own!

Tip 4: Be In the Moment - The Party is Starting!

Before the party starts, have drinks pre-poured & set up ahead of time for guests to enjoy when they arrive.

A great intro is everything! Create a fun “menu” of directions for the exchange to pass out to guests or as a list written out on a chalkboard so that it is easy to see and understand.

As an icebreaker, have a great introduction theme game or cute name tags to get your guests warmed up! Prep goodie bags for guests to stash all their newly loved items they’ve scored!

Once all the lists are checked off, your party is set up, and your guests have arrived, you’ll be able to relax and enjoy the exchange. Bon Fete!

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Clear, themed signs helps to create a lovely, themed event

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Printed images from Minted used for the French theme

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Cloth napkins, cut from fabric, add a personal touch

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French-inspired Madeleines made by a friend, food blogger The Incidental Spoon

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Pre-pour drinks ahead of time, in lovely, eclectic glassware for a personal touch

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An accessory match game for guests arriving. Find your matching accessory and meet a new friend!

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Plates and platters were laid out for guests to place accessories on, French patisserie style

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French-inspired menu of desserts and snacks fit in with the exchange theme

Happy planning!

Story & Styling // Conni Jespersen of Art in the Find Styling Photography // Andrea Gallagher Photography Location // Vocabulary Boutique Theme // French-inspired La Bonne Vie Accessory Exchange